Friday, May 2, 2008

The Things That Ladies Like To Hear

There are some things that you can say to a women that is going to give you an edge when it comes to hooking up with them. That is because all women have things that they love to hear. Women are kind of like dogs (Ladies, please don’t take offense…Just an analogy). If you say the right thing at just the right time (and in the right tone of voice), you can make her do whatever it is you want her to do. At the same time, if you say the wrong thing at the wrong time (and, of course, in the wrong tone of voice), they will make your life a living hell. This is a concept that a lot of men have problems with. They do not get that the same line or same phrase is not going to work every time. There is a certain time to say the things that you think women want to hear.

First of all, when you meet a girl, no pickup lines. No matter how funny you think it is, or how clever you think you are being because you are not! So when we’re talking about certain phrases that girls want to hear, keep in mind we are not talking about pickup lines. Let’s start of with some things you should already know. Women love to get compliments. This is the only thing that you can use day in and day out, and you could never use it too much. Women love compliments; end of story. In fact, you could say that women need compliments like living things need food and water. Yes, it's that big of a deal. The biggest thing that you have to remember is not to over do it. Sure you can give compliments everyday, but you can not just throw out empty flattery. There has to be real strategy behind the compliments you give.

Now that you know that compliments are a good idea and you can say them everyday, when is the right time to say it, and how should you say it? Well, the way that you should say it all depends on her mood. If it's for someone that you have been dating for a long time, then saying something like, “your butt looks good in those jeans,” could be fine. However, if it's a random girl at the store, you may want to think of a different way to say it. Something like, “those jeans look very flattering on you.” This is pretty much just another way to say, “hey your butt looks good in those jeans (sad but true).” Another sure fire hit is, “you look incredible.” Sure it's simple, but it's very effective!

Here are some simple tips that are often overlooked. Don’t just think about it, go out there and start using it!

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