Your mother should be credited for drilling into your head some of the very important dating rules for men. She ensured that you brushed your teeth, had your hair shaved or combed, taught you to clean your clothes and even went further to put some sense of humor in your conversations. Mum might not have told you this so please pay attention. The first rule is that read the signs and move on. Do not keep on asking a girl out if she continues saying no after the few first dates. Pursuing a woman who is not interested in you might be very disappointing. Women are better at the dating game and will use their sexual power to test guys and if she does not like you. You can do little to change that.
Men have been accused of being less romantic. Women are great lovers and do not like it when their efforts are not reciprocated. Ten women will pursue a romantic guy while you cannot get even a single girl to hold your shoulder while you cry. Among the dating rules for men is that you should learn the female anatomy and please her a lot when it comes to making love. If you make a woman climax she will fall in love with you. There are so many resources where you can get information about love making techniques. Go to the Internet, read books and listen to the radio and make your woman happy. Women take long to get aroused so do not concentrate on your pleasure. That will be so mean of you.
Men love to see and it is hard to help this. Among the dating rules for men is that do not apologize for being a man. You should be proud of who you are at all times. If you innocently look at another woman you are called all sorts of names including, a pig, rapist, and jerk. Do not allow this. A flirtatious look is so natural a drive to a man. It is natural for a man to want to have sex. Let your woman understand this at all times. Scarcity translates into high value. Do not be too available all the time. Say you are busy at times just to keep her guessing.
It feels good to be responsible. Do you pay for all the bills on your dates? That has to change. Do not be quick to clear all her bills from food and drinks to her cab home. It is unacceptable. Dating rules for men are against that because it might change her perception about you. Unless she does not have money, let her pay some of the cheap bills. The dating rules associated with this is do not trade money for sex. Have fun in all your dates and always focus on a challenging course. Pursue a girl who is above your head. She might seem too good for you but give it a try. You might just be lucky enough to date a very pretty girl. Lowering your standards means that you will tolerate intolerable behavior. Be yourself at all times.
Friday, November 14, 2008
Leverage The Luck Of The Irish To Become Lucky In Love!
When you speak of the Irish, talk often turns to luck. According to Wikipedia, this can be a tongue and cheek discussion of luck, since the Irish have fallen victim to many woes over the centuries. Another entry cited that when you catch a Leprechaun, you'll get a piece of gold - which certainly would be lucky!
So how can you leverage the good luck of the Irish to turn your dating luck around? Let's base the love-life shift on the shamrock's three heart-shaped leaves:
1) Begin thinking of yourself as lucky in love
Lucky people usually think of themselves as lucky which further promotes more good luck. They expect to be lucky. So how would your love-life change if you felt lucky in love? You might feel more attractive to the opposite s*e*x. You might not fear rejection as much. You might imagine suddenly finding the love of your life. Not such a bad idea huh?
This concept mirrors "The Secret" and the Universal Law of Attraction which states "Like attracts like." What that really means is that positive thinking attracts more positive thinking. And believing you are lucky in love will attract energy that makes you - you've got it - lucky in love. What have you got to lose?
2) Follow the rainbow to find the Leprechaun's pot of gold
Or the romantic partner you've been seeking. Hmmm. How does that apply? Well, rainbows seem like a bit of magic from the Universe and Leprechauns certainly have a magical quality. So can you stretch to believe that meeting the right person for you is part of the magic of the Universe and bound to happen? People find love every day. Why not you?
Personally, on my dating journey, sometimes what pulled me through the rougher times was reminding myself that everything has a purpose (even if we don't know it.) So there must be a reason I'm doing all this to find a partner. And I chose to believe that the reasons behind it all , the good and the bad, were the lessons I needed to learn to FIND HIM. Holding onto that faith tightly, kept me going when I felt down. I got to the point where I knew undeniably that I was going to find the right partner for me. And I did. If I can do it, I know you can too.
3) Get your own piece of gold to remind yourself that you are lucky
If you did meet a Leprechaun who rewarded you with a piece of gold, you'd probably never let go of it right? Well, what if you found your own talisman to remind you of your good fortune? You could get something like :
One of those popular necklaces with a horseshoe (for more good luck of course)
A small coin stamped with lucky symbols to carry with you (Celtic stores carry them)
Or find a lucky pebble and maybe even paint it gold
The actual item doesn't matter. What does matter is that you find something that speaks to you about your lot in life and turning it around to the lucky soul you deserve to be - and truly are.
Take your luck into your own hands! Allow yourself this new belief of being lucky in love. Who knows where it will take you but expecting to be lucky in love, will definitely attract more luck to you. Here's to getting lucky - in love and life!
So how can you leverage the good luck of the Irish to turn your dating luck around? Let's base the love-life shift on the shamrock's three heart-shaped leaves:
1) Begin thinking of yourself as lucky in love
Lucky people usually think of themselves as lucky which further promotes more good luck. They expect to be lucky. So how would your love-life change if you felt lucky in love? You might feel more attractive to the opposite s*e*x. You might not fear rejection as much. You might imagine suddenly finding the love of your life. Not such a bad idea huh?
This concept mirrors "The Secret" and the Universal Law of Attraction which states "Like attracts like." What that really means is that positive thinking attracts more positive thinking. And believing you are lucky in love will attract energy that makes you - you've got it - lucky in love. What have you got to lose?
2) Follow the rainbow to find the Leprechaun's pot of gold
Or the romantic partner you've been seeking. Hmmm. How does that apply? Well, rainbows seem like a bit of magic from the Universe and Leprechauns certainly have a magical quality. So can you stretch to believe that meeting the right person for you is part of the magic of the Universe and bound to happen? People find love every day. Why not you?
Personally, on my dating journey, sometimes what pulled me through the rougher times was reminding myself that everything has a purpose (even if we don't know it.) So there must be a reason I'm doing all this to find a partner. And I chose to believe that the reasons behind it all , the good and the bad, were the lessons I needed to learn to FIND HIM. Holding onto that faith tightly, kept me going when I felt down. I got to the point where I knew undeniably that I was going to find the right partner for me. And I did. If I can do it, I know you can too.
3) Get your own piece of gold to remind yourself that you are lucky
If you did meet a Leprechaun who rewarded you with a piece of gold, you'd probably never let go of it right? Well, what if you found your own talisman to remind you of your good fortune? You could get something like :
One of those popular necklaces with a horseshoe (for more good luck of course)
A small coin stamped with lucky symbols to carry with you (Celtic stores carry them)
Or find a lucky pebble and maybe even paint it gold
The actual item doesn't matter. What does matter is that you find something that speaks to you about your lot in life and turning it around to the lucky soul you deserve to be - and truly are.
Take your luck into your own hands! Allow yourself this new belief of being lucky in love. Who knows where it will take you but expecting to be lucky in love, will definitely attract more luck to you. Here's to getting lucky - in love and life!
5 Simple Dating Tips For Men
Today it's more difficult to date as a single man. With the trends of dating moving more and more toward the Internet women are able to be more selective when searching for a man. The dating world is a jungle and men who don't know what they're doing keep making the same mistakes over and over... finding it harder to stand out and shine. Here are 5 simple dating tips for men to help smooth out the frustrations of dating.
Learn to Qualify Women
Women have become preconditioned to scoff a man who shows too much interest in her looks above anything else. Men will rely upon lame pick-up lines and over-used routines that she has undoubtedly heard before. Rather than fitting in with the rest of the unsuccessful men, communicate to her that it is you who is picking her and not the other way around. Qualifying women in this sense shows you have criteria for your ideal women and will actually make you appear more attractive in her eyes. It's important to remember that you have to stay true to that criteria regardless of how good she looks.
One-Sided Conversations Are Bad
You're going to want to stay away from one-sided conversations with a woman. If you're having a conversation and it seems like you're taking on most of the dialogue between you to either move along or get her to chime in. That means create a balanced conversation where the woman is engaging and does her part to contribute to the conversation. There are easy questions like "Where are you from", or "How do you know _____ " that can start a simple mingle session. It's important to remember that if she's not investing in the conversation and only answering with short replies - you should not invest too much of yourself either.
Confidence And Your Approach
A lot of guys see a woman's phone number as the goal. It's true that the phone number should be a priority but it's only part of the overall picture. When asking for a woman's phone number you should be confident and to the point. Don't be afraid or dance around the question. Don't hint at exchanging numbers either - be strong and confident with your approach. By remembering that the number isn't the goal it take some of the pressure off and by working the exchange into conversation there will be little or no stress when thinking how to ask a girl her number. When talking about a topic that you BOTH enjoy casually mention she should take out her phone. Have her dial your number and call it. No pickup lines no funny jokes.
"Hey do you have your phone on you? Take it out."
"Cool, dial my number we should definitely talk more about going ______ next time we're both free"
Leading Women In A Relationship
From dancing to adventure, women expect men to lead. One of the biggest mistakes men make is constantly asking the woman what she wants to do. If this is you - STOP. You will likely find yourself single again very soon. Make the decisions for the two of you and stick with it. Be decisive, don't hesitate, and enjoy yourself. This is true both in normal courting as well as the bedroom.
Approval Seeking Men Are Lame
Attractive men are secure in themselves and have no reason to seek approval from women. Trying to impress a women with bling bling or expensive luxuries are all forms of approval seeking. Don't do these things as they shine you in a negative and insecure light. Both qualities are fundamentally unattractive.
Learn to Qualify Women
Women have become preconditioned to scoff a man who shows too much interest in her looks above anything else. Men will rely upon lame pick-up lines and over-used routines that she has undoubtedly heard before. Rather than fitting in with the rest of the unsuccessful men, communicate to her that it is you who is picking her and not the other way around. Qualifying women in this sense shows you have criteria for your ideal women and will actually make you appear more attractive in her eyes. It's important to remember that you have to stay true to that criteria regardless of how good she looks.
One-Sided Conversations Are Bad
You're going to want to stay away from one-sided conversations with a woman. If you're having a conversation and it seems like you're taking on most of the dialogue between you to either move along or get her to chime in. That means create a balanced conversation where the woman is engaging and does her part to contribute to the conversation. There are easy questions like "Where are you from", or "How do you know _____ " that can start a simple mingle session. It's important to remember that if she's not investing in the conversation and only answering with short replies - you should not invest too much of yourself either.
Confidence And Your Approach
A lot of guys see a woman's phone number as the goal. It's true that the phone number should be a priority but it's only part of the overall picture. When asking for a woman's phone number you should be confident and to the point. Don't be afraid or dance around the question. Don't hint at exchanging numbers either - be strong and confident with your approach. By remembering that the number isn't the goal it take some of the pressure off and by working the exchange into conversation there will be little or no stress when thinking how to ask a girl her number. When talking about a topic that you BOTH enjoy casually mention she should take out her phone. Have her dial your number and call it. No pickup lines no funny jokes.
"Hey do you have your phone on you? Take it out."
"Cool, dial my number we should definitely talk more about going ______ next time we're both free"
Leading Women In A Relationship
From dancing to adventure, women expect men to lead. One of the biggest mistakes men make is constantly asking the woman what she wants to do. If this is you - STOP. You will likely find yourself single again very soon. Make the decisions for the two of you and stick with it. Be decisive, don't hesitate, and enjoy yourself. This is true both in normal courting as well as the bedroom.
Approval Seeking Men Are Lame
Attractive men are secure in themselves and have no reason to seek approval from women. Trying to impress a women with bling bling or expensive luxuries are all forms of approval seeking. Don't do these things as they shine you in a negative and insecure light. Both qualities are fundamentally unattractive.
How to Tell If a Girl Likes You
Men come into terrible dilemma when they meet a girl that they like. The love is in the heart, but the feat is there too for he does not know whether the girl likes him too. Nobody dares to make a move until he finds signs of interest, so as not to avoid premature rejection or being ridiculed by the girl.
There are different signs a girl can send to show that she likes you. One of them is through the eyes. If she can't stop herself from looking at you, there are great chances that she is interested, and would expect you to make a move. This is a great sign, so if you experience the same, go for it!
The second sign happens to both men and women. Look for the willingness to help. If a girl is attracted to you, she will find ways to help you. This is because she sees you as Number One priority. In more "extreme" cases, she may call you to ask if you need help. This is the ultimate indication, and it means she wants your company badly.
Jealousy is another good way to tell. Perhaps, on purpose, go talk another girl you know when the girl you are interested is around. Notice if you can see that she is jealous; they can't hide it! Sometimes, she may ask "Is that your girlfriend?" and that is a sign that they are watching for you. So you know she is jealous, and you want her to show more emotions, what should you do? Perhaps just talk to her casually. And if the jealousy does not go away for a long time, tease her by saying "Are you jealous?"
These few signs will help you determine if the girl you are eyeing likes you as well. If most of these signs are present, there is a good chance that she is. Even if, she is not, going ahead with the confession may bring surprises. Well, life is so random that we never know what would happen.
There are different signs a girl can send to show that she likes you. One of them is through the eyes. If she can't stop herself from looking at you, there are great chances that she is interested, and would expect you to make a move. This is a great sign, so if you experience the same, go for it!
The second sign happens to both men and women. Look for the willingness to help. If a girl is attracted to you, she will find ways to help you. This is because she sees you as Number One priority. In more "extreme" cases, she may call you to ask if you need help. This is the ultimate indication, and it means she wants your company badly.
Jealousy is another good way to tell. Perhaps, on purpose, go talk another girl you know when the girl you are interested is around. Notice if you can see that she is jealous; they can't hide it! Sometimes, she may ask "Is that your girlfriend?" and that is a sign that they are watching for you. So you know she is jealous, and you want her to show more emotions, what should you do? Perhaps just talk to her casually. And if the jealousy does not go away for a long time, tease her by saying "Are you jealous?"
These few signs will help you determine if the girl you are eyeing likes you as well. If most of these signs are present, there is a good chance that she is. Even if, she is not, going ahead with the confession may bring surprises. Well, life is so random that we never know what would happen.
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